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The Battle of Sexes
Society plays major role that influences the views of young adults towards their lives. One of the key impacts in the societal influences on the perceptions that men and women have in determining their roles in society. Men and women are both driven by similar motivations, but differ in their approaches and level of importance to love, money and careers.
First at all, love is one of the motivations that both males and females desire, but have different approach to express love. Love for my personal view is the strongest emotion that a person can have to express to a love one and change the way one views the world. Most of young male adults don’t want a serious relationship because they are afraid to commit to one person for a long period of time. The term “love” for men usually means sex in their manly minds. “Men view sex as the true expression of love and usually think a relationship hasn’t even started until it includes sex” (King). Society today has change the way males think about love. “A male thinks about sex every seven seconds on average” (King). One of the weaknesses for men is that they don’t know the differences between sex and love. They also can’t express love as women do. On the other hand, love is a big deal for women. Most of the women want a serious relationship. Women are very emotional and sentimental person. They want the emotional and physical connection among the opposite sex. When women think about love, they mostly think about the chemistry between two people who can care deeply and impact one’s life. Most of the young adults today are usually looking for a future husband beside of focusing of their careers.
Secondly, money is another similar motivation that men and women have alike, but have a different ways to spend their income. Both young men and women adults spend some of the money in necessary items such as car payment, food, utilities, and etc. Men usually spend their money in car accessories and electronics. Males love electronics; they usually continue to buy the new brand of video game machine such as Xbox, PlayStation, and etc. Especially, young male adults spend most of the earnings on their social expense such as alcohol, clubs, and sporting goods. On the other hand, women spend their money on items that they don’t really need such as makeup. Makeup needs to be replaced every six months therefore women spend so much money to maintain a good appearance. Women own so much jewelry that they spend money without even thinking about the conception. Also, women have the habit to buy clothing, handbags, and shoes that they only wear once and then collect dust in their closet
Finally, career is the last motivation that both men and women have alike, but take different directions careers. Mostly men and women want to pursuit successful careers that allow them to explore their different goals of lifes. Men usually take the easy way to obtain a career by attend vocational technical schools. Most of them obtain work as a welder, pharmacy technician, computer technician and etc. Men usually have construction and machines repair jobs. Women today are attending more to four years college than men and becoming teachers and registered nurse. “In 2004, women workers accounted for 93.5% of employment of all word processors and typists” (www.ocouha.com). Most of the females today are working in the office as bookkeeper, payroll clerk, and secretaries. As same as men, women are attend vocational schools to become child care worker, teacher assistants, and dental assistants.
In conlusion, both women and men may have similarities and differences that influences by society. The path by which males and females obtain the life goals of love, careers and money are directly related to societal changes.